Wednesday, 21 December 2011

Love cum arrange marriage


Love cum arrange marriage
Love cum arrange marriage is a type of marriage where the couple decide his/her partner and approved by the couple’s parents. This type of marriage is getting popular now a days. As In India the concept of love marriage is not adopted everywhere but the idea of love cum arranged is accepted by both couple as well as parents. In arrange marriage the partner is choose by the parents, while in love marriage couple decide their partner but love cum arrange marriage is a nice combination where the couple marries the person of his/ her choice later on they convince their parents and instead of getting marriage in court or in temple the couple get married by the acceptance of family member.

Due to the influence of Western countries, people in the urban areas started love marriage. However, in the rural areas, this new trend is not so popular or acceptable. In Indian custom this has been the trend that the parents decide the Earlier, the arranged marriages were the only option where the couple had to marry the person of their parent’s choice. Later it takes long time to know each other understand each other and build the relationship. But in some cases it’s not happened and the relation ship ended as divorce. But now a day due to Indian love stories movies and western culture, the trend has changed and people want to choose their partner on their own.

So basically its start as a love affair, later on the couple knows each other understand each other and if everything goes in perfect way then seek the approval of their parents for marriage. Now the parents are quite liberal and allow their children to choose their own life partner. But this is the duty of the children that they have to maintain the dignity of their parents. And get the approval of their parents before starting a new life. So it will bring lots of happiness and pleasure not only for couple but also among the two families, as well

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