Love marriage is a type of marriage that is not arranged by family member of the bride and groom. Generally two individual start their life, when they fall in love. The concept of Love marriage culture is not so much is founded in India or eastern countries. But now a day people want to decide their own that, whom they would like to spend the whole life. They wanted to know each other, understand each other and if everything is perfect then they marry.
The things started anywhere it can be school, colleges, offices or anywhere. When two individual start liking each other, the relationship can be started from friendship. Two people know each other, understand each other and spend lots of time together so they feel comfortable in each company. They know likes and dislikes of each other. And sooner or later they fall in love. So it makes a comfort zone for the couple. And they start there life in a bound called marriage. While in arrange marriage where parents select and decide the life partner for their children. In this case it takes lots of time to develop and maintain a level of comfort, understanding their partners. And if something goes wrong one has to either opt for divorce or compromise is the last solution.
As it is said that, Love is blind .Generally, Love marriage doesn’t have any boundations of Religion, caste, color, age, height, language, family status and other factor which are considered in arrange marriages. Love can happen any time with any one. So in this case, the couple has to go against their family, to marry the person of their choice. Most of the times the parents are not agree if the caste or religion is not same. So in this case the couple has to take the decision and they goes against their parents. If marriage proves a failure they are to be blame themselves. There would be no moral or financial support from parents one has to tackle the problem.
As there are pros and cons of every type of marriage either love marriage or arrange marriage. People choose according to their choice. Some prefer love marriage some arranges or some semi arranges mean love plus arrange.
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